The ds's are still away with their dad.. So dd has a friend over.. We've done lots of baking :)
in the middle of cake making dds friend (8) looks at me and says " so why is ds2 different? ... Does he have something wrong?"
when I just smile and said yes and gave a short explination, she said " cool, it's good to be different.. I just didn't want to ask him on case I made him sad"