Just feel that everything revolves around dd tbh.
I always seem to be talking, thinking about her and as he is so good I don't really worry about him and I should. I mean he is only 7 and a half and they have a 19 month age gap so he has had to really learn to take a step back as dd has always been priority, had to be watched etc more for danger, needed help etc.
Really good example was this morning I really snapped at him (feel bad ) and said when you have finished with your yoghurt, throw it away!. His reply mum it wasn't me it was dd. Why do you always blame me for what dd does?
It's so true. Sometimes feel like I missed out on so much with ds and must admit to feeling sad. He is so undertstanding and great with dd but it must be hard for him sometimes