we have a last meeting tomorrow with the la about ds's statement where they say they will listen to my concerns with the statement and explain why they wont change it!? they know ive sent tribunal forms off already and dont seem to care or willing to change anything. their arguement is that ds's statement does not need quantifying or to have anything specific in it at all except wooly phrases like "if the school believes there is a need for ot involvement they can request this" he has a place sorted now for a special school so the la say that at special school they dont need specific statements as if they need help they get it, my arguement if hes going to get it anyway whats harm in putting it in statement, he needs salt, ot and some one to one (very good ratio of 4 adults to 6 kids so wont need too much one to one!) so it should be in statement then he will get it and i have a leg to stand on if he doesnt, they say "trust the school they will do whatever ds needs" but the school doesnt even have an ot, has one to one for other kids in other classes in the school as "it states it on their statement" so why wont they put it on ds's grrrrrrrrr the meeting tomorrow is also involving the school ds is to start at in september so they only know a little about him and havent got him their yet but the la say they are at the meeting to reassure me they will cope with him and statement is fine!!
can anyone help me with things i could say ie specific laws or whatever - ive tried the cop bit that says should be quantified etc and they just say "should be - but that means if they dont get it without it being on statement" but my point is hes not got it yet hes not there how do they know!!
anyone give me any advice of things to throw at them!?