I have twin 9 year old boys who have both been diagnoised with dyslexia this past year.o get this done i had to move schools as the school they where in made me feel as if they just needed more time to be read with, however within 2 weeks of being in their new school where tested and proved to have difficulties. The school they are in now is fantastic, they have also tested them with speech and language and the one boy only scored on the first percentile on expressive language.However since christmas their behavior has spirrled out of control(it was bad before but now whooaaa). They are refusung to do school work,sit and do what is asked of them. running out of class,being rude to the teachers and have such explosive outbursts. I could go on and on.One boy was excluded for hitting the headmistress when he stormed out of class and has tried but cant seem to help himself,and the other lad has been on a reduced timetable for the last month and when he is in school he tries but struggles to contain himself. They have such rivalry between them and appear to swap behaviors.This weekend one lad used his brothers mobile phone to make a hoax call to 999 and I just dont know what to do any more. I have accepted advice from agencies such as family thearapy etc and they seem content that its a learning/educational problem but i feel there is somthing eles, socially they can be ok once they get familiar they do make eye contact but at times you have to encourage it.With their peers it is their way or nothing,the boys view them as friends but it appears one sided. they both view things very black and white and are very stubborn, hence the stand offs with the teachers.My husband has dyslexia and a weird gene which is very strong in his family of people with very poor social skills and withdrawn. These people are adults or gone but if in the educational system today would defo be on the aspergers or autism spectrum.Luckily they do have an assessment with the ed phyc next week, however im at my witts end and soo worried they will grow into handbag stealing junkies.