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dyslexic 7 year old....help

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CirrhosisByTheSea · 17/03/2010 11:45

I have posted about DS before. School have assessed him recently as 'strong risk' of dyslexia using their internal screening. Teacher told us in a meeting following this that it won't change anything that they do with ds because they are already treating him the way he needs to be treated. (this consists of a paired reading programme, he reads with the TA for 10 mins each day - that's the sum total (just using the Oxford Reading Tree books)

DS is 8 soon and has just moved up to level 5 ORT

I'm just so lost - I don't know what to ask the school to do now - I feel DS needs LOTS more targetted specialist dyslexia help but I don't know what this IS, or what to ask the school to do next.

DS is getting very, very miserable and tortured about school; becoming more aware as each day passes, of how he is behind his peers. I feel while I flounder about not knowing what to do, his self esteem is taking daily knocks that he may never recover from

I am seeing the teacher tomorrow for a chat and we have a meeting with the teacher and senco next week - what do I say, what does DS need?

Can anyone help? I've never felt so lost about this or so worried for DS

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CirrhosisByTheSea · 17/03/2010 14:37

just bumping in case anyone can advise!

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maverick · 17/03/2010 14:45

I can understand completely why you're desperate, CBTS. His school obviously haven't a clue how to deal with struggling readers. If they're using ORT then I bet there are loads of others with the same problem. Giving him the 'possibly dyslexic' label without providing a structured and effective intervention is really cruel IMO.

Please read my (non-commercial) webpage on the options:

www.aowm73.dsl.pipex.com/dyslexics/should_I_options.htm

CirrhosisByTheSea · 17/03/2010 14:50

thank you maverick - I will have a look at that after the school run!

thank you for replying.

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claricebeansmum · 17/03/2010 14:52

I am interested in the school's screening process. "At strong risk of dyslexia" is not that helpful.

Dyslexia is a very broad term which can generally be interpreted to mean a disparity between a skill such as reading, maths, spelling and that which you would have expected considering that child's IQ etc.

So I would be asking what it is that have led them to this diagnosis and what it is specifically DS is struggling with and what they can put into place to help him.

I would then also ask ongoing how they suggest that you get a formal ed psych assessment.

debbiehep · 17/03/2010 16:12

You need to become knowledgeable yourself about the details of the alphabetic code and the skill of identifying the various elements of code all-through-printed-words and how to sound out and blend them.

If your ds doesn't know the alphabetic code well enough, he is left with various multi-cueing strategies that, in reality, amount to guessing many words from clues such as the pictures, the context of the sentences, initial letters and 'what would make sense'.

These are all very flawed reading strategies because, in effect, they do only amount to guessing and when the text becomes more difficult, some children are left stranded with no way to improve their reading.

Any good teacher would have tested your ds on how much alphabetic code knowledge he knows to automaticity. So, one question you might ask of school is whether he has been tested in this way and please could you see the test and the test results.

You could also ask exactly which synthetic phonics programme the school is using and which elements of the alphabetic code are they accountable for teaching there. You could ask to see this.

Meanwhile, get very busy tonight doing your homework (if you see this email in time).

I provide very informative alphabetic code charts which are entirely free to download via my free unit 1 webpage along with many other informative resources - all free.

I also provide some assessment material which you can find in a yellow box down the centre column of the homepage of www.phonicsinternational.com . There you will find a range of assessments including some alphabetic code knowledge assessments and some words for blending. If you can manage it, try to get a feel for what your son knows and can or can't do to help him.

If he is an unhappy lad, you could also consider telling him that research is showing teachers some better methods of teaching reading and spelling but that he may not have had the kind of teaching that would help him the most. Of course, I don't know what his school has or hasn't provided so please go careful about what you say with regard to his school - speak in general terms. What I am trying to suggest here is that the pressure can be taken off him and any perceived 'learning difficulties' and some explanation provided that teachers themselves need better understanding of these phonics practices (which is actually the case).

If nothing else, you are probably perfectly capable of helping your son to improve at home if you can find fiftenn minutes or so a night and get into a good routine - so I'm giving you encouragement and hope - do not despair!

CirrhosisByTheSea · 17/03/2010 19:08

thank you for these very helpful posts I will have a look at these things, thank you do much.

debbie that's a very good idea about telling him about the teachers needing help with this! I will do that. It's so true - I feel if he'd been getting very specific targeted help like you mention, that he would have been doing better; it's not all his problem, it's the school's as well but the trouble is of course it feels all DS problem because he's the one struggling every day.

thanks again

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CirrhosisByTheSea · 17/03/2010 19:08

do much? so much!

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SandylovesZsadist · 01/04/2010 12:53

Cirrhois: How did you get on?

My son has SPLds - they won't call is dyslexia - he is in Year 3 and really struggling - just had his latest assessments for reading, writing & numeracy and they are all level 1s.

Debbie: I'm going to have a look at your website tonight.

DyslexiaTeach · 25/04/2010 18:46

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