I attended the first IEP meeting for my ds yesterday. (I hadn't realised how complicated the whole process is!) Anyway, the odd thing about it was the voting... He's in a split placement between 2 different schools and 1 school had just the main teacher from the class, the other school sent 3... all get to vote. Is this really the way it goes? Had I known this, I think I would have brought dh and a few friends! Does anyone know if what the rules (if there are any) are around the votes?