DC4 aged 6 is a lively little girl with very stretchy ligaments and some degree of hyper mobility, which means that physically she lags behind her peers, and has a rigid handwriting stance which looks uncomfortable. I am self referring to an OT to see if there is stuff we can do to help her physically catch up. However, I am puzzled by this: she reads confidently at age 7.9 on assessment, is very articulate indeed and has an extensive vocab. Academically she appears to have no problems, other than that her teacher and DH and I have become concerned that she has no idea how to spell. She can learn words on a list by rote more easily than most in her class, but cannot write and spell to anything approaching her apparent ability. She simply cannot hear 'sounds' in words and relies on memory alone to help her. A friend who is a trained special needs teacher assessed her for me yesterday and said that she has a specific learning difficulty which is that she does not know her letter sounds or how to segment words. This is despite her previous school teaching synthetic phonics (I'm not sure if exclusively or not ). Please can anyone tell me why would this happen? How has she managed to miss something more or less completely out of her learning and surely she wouldn't be reading well if this were the case? I don't understand what is going on - can anyone advise me please?