I'm a bit confused about what ds2's current school are in fact providing for him.
He started reception this Sep, having previously been in the school nursery. He has epilepsy and the school were fairly supportive of that. But wasn't long before the reception teacher started mentioning behaviour problems and I started to dread picking him up as I would wonder what incident she would have to report this time. She also made comments like 'of course he got lots of help in nursery' with the implication being that he wouldn't have that help any more.
However, the class appears to have one extra TA (or possibly nursery nurse, it's not clear what their qualifications are if any) and one of these assistants seems to spend a lot of time with ds2. Eg she stays in with him some break times if he doesn't want to go out, and in recent assemblies was clearly on hand for him to sit on her lap or to direct him if he tried to wander off.
Following discussions with the class teacher and with me, the SENCO has also involved a psychologist who should eventually be coming up with strategies to deal with his behaviour. (I would say he shows clear AD/HD behaviour - whether this is intrinsic to him or down to the anti-epileptic drugs I'm not sure.)
If anyone from the school is a mumsnetter they will definitely recognise ds2 by now!
Anyway, the school (specifically the SENCO) are clearly reacting to the situation and trying to provide additional help. And I'm very glad of that but just a bit confused as to where we stand. If he has an IEP I've never seen it and certainly haven't ever been invited to review it. Would all this happen without an IEP? Does ds2 need an IEP? (and I suppose the next question is does he need statementing but I might leave that for a while!)