...my 11 year old Geeky Urchin is in year 7 at a mainstream school 200 metres from my house. He is yet to formally receive an Aspergers diagnosis (waiting list) but no-one doubts that he will.
He is struggling (socially, not academically) and I was called to a multi professional meeting this week.
The Ed Psych floated the idea that he might fare better at a school with a specialist communication disorder unit. My local authority has two. One is new and about a mile and a half distant, the other much further but more established (I know of one local boy who attends, and is happy and successful at the more distant unit)
My thoughts have been muddied by my 17 year old twin nieces, who attend a school with such a unit attached (in another part of the country). They implore me not to send the geeky one there, as they felt that children from the unit were singled out and bullied by the others.
I am torn as to the best way forward. His current school is imperfect, but kind and far from clueless. They are doing everything available to them. It seems likely that he will be statemented, though he is not yet.
Has anyone else experience of such a place? I would be grateful for your thoughts. Thank you!