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What would you do? Moving school when a child has SENs and the new school is being funny

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SparklyGothKat · 10/12/2008 14:58

Please bear with me, this may be long!

DD1 is currently at a school 2.5 miles away, we have managed to secure a place at the school round the corner for DD1 and DD2. They are supposed to start in jan.

Dd1 has Cerebral Palsy, ADHD and learning problems. She has done well at her current school, but we need to move them to the neareer school due to DS1 moving to secondary school in sept and we wouldn't be able to transport Ds1 and the girls to 2 different school in opposite directions.

had a meeting last week with the head of the new school and she was going on about budgets, tables and how she can't take DD1 without more support. She has spent her SEN budget for the year, so wouldn;t be able to provide additional support for DD1.

After lots of thought me and DH decided that the budget wasn't our problem and decided to send her there anyway.

Today the head has phoned me and said was I aware that Dd1 is currently in a class in 19 and that to move her to a class of 31 without support would be madness

She is trying to put pressure on me to refuse the place, i know that!!

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SparklyGothKat · 15/12/2008 12:56

The DDs are staying where they are. I couldn't put them into a school where it will be a fight every day.

Will have to deal with the fallout tonight when we tell them...

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chocaholic73 · 16/12/2008 10:28

glad you've reached a decision. Not quite sure who the fallout was going to be from but hope everything is OK.

SparklyGothKat · 16/12/2008 14:23

Well we had a fallout from DD2, who was really excited about going there, but when we explained that Dd1 needed support and the new school couldn't provide that as well as their current school, she was ok.

The Head actually rang me last night and said sorry if we felt unwelcome she had a call from county hall and got told off

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SparklyGothKat · 16/12/2008 14:33

We came to the decision that because the current school only have 19 children in the class, and Dd1's support is already in place as well as her funding, that to move her to a school where it was going to a fight to get the support, it wasn't worth it.

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