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mainstream or special school?

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glitteryb6 · 08/10/2008 09:50

ds due to start school next august, our area is more geared towards autism and learning difficulties and ed pshyc says has no schools that would suit his specific needs, pretty much non verbal, has a few words but not consistently, very bright, ed psych and nursery school reckon he's ahead for his age but completely physically disabled, quad dystonic cp with little or no hand function, he only really has facial expression and eye pointing, he cant use a switch but has been recommended for a ridiculously expensive eye tracker which seems to be taking ages to be approved, probably because its about £11,500.

we have identified a school outwith the area which is a total communication environment, all the kids have physical problems but use symbols and communication devices to access an expanded curriculum, they also have an ICT unit based at the school and full nursing, physio, OT, splint clinic etc so pretty much what i'm looking for...i think!

placing request meeting is in a few weeks, ed psych reckons they might want to put him in mainstream with support rather than go outwith the authority, not sure how i feel about this, i think hes bright enough to cope with mainstream with the right equipment in place but i think he would need to get his eyetracker soon to be up to speed with it by the time august comes. i always said i wanted him in mainstream but now i wonder if a class of 30 odd kids would just swallow him up IYKWIM?

im just rambling really i suppose i would just like other peoples opinions if anyone has had a similar decision to make?

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pagwatch · 08/10/2008 09:55

depends entirely upon your child andthe school in question.

My DS2 would not have coped in mainstream and no way would i ever have wanted him to go.

I would always bear in mind though that mainstream with support is wwwaaayyy cheaper and you will be pushed hard to opt for that if the LEA think they can persuade you.

taxiservice · 04/11/2008 23:24

I think your gut feeling about ds being lost in a big classroom is right. When your child is in a mainstream school he becomes highly dependent on the learning support staff and they are often not very well trained and certainly very poorly paid. If your ds is very bright it is likely that he will need very well trained workers with him.

My dd is coming on well but she has been through years of teachers mollycoddling her (yes, she's cute!) and not challenging her. I can imagine that your ds may suffer unless his needs are really well met.

taxiservice · 04/11/2008 23:24

I think your gut feeling about ds being lost in a big classroom is right. When your child is in a mainstream school he becomes highly dependent on the learning support staff and they are often not very well trained and certainly very poorly paid. If your ds is very bright it is likely that he will need very well trained workers with him.

My dd is coming on well but she has been through years of teachers mollycoddling her (yes, she's cute!) and not challenging her. I can imagine that your ds may suffer unless his needs are really well met.

jimjamshaslefttheyurt · 04/11/2008 23:32

We've done mainstream and special. My son's needs are very different from yours, but they share that they are complex. I would never put my son in mainstream again and he has come on a lot since going to special school. They use the total communication approach at his school too.

Really though you have to look at the schools then imagine your child in them. Where will he fit?

The mainstream option will probably be pushed. If you go for it you will need a watertight statement with support quantified in parts 2 and 3 of the statement.

mabanana · 04/11/2008 23:40

The school you have found sounds perfect. But be prepared to fight, and fight, and hire lawyers and fight some more, sadly. However, I may be wrong, and it won't be that hard. I think it sounds so much better than mainstream.

cat64 · 04/11/2008 23:48

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glitteryb6 · 18/12/2008 20:49

Just an update on this, got a call today from the Ed Psych, to say that they'd had the placing request meeting and agreed to fund the special school thats outwith the area...yay!

He said it was pretty straight forward, they just asked if, in his opinion, any of the local schools would meet his needs and he said no and that he supported my choice of the other school, so they said yes!

The paperwork will now go forward to the other authority's next placing request meeting in february but he said that should be no problem as the school i have picked is currently undersubscribed so the other authority will be looking to place kids from outwith their area anyway.

Also the head teacher is really keen to have him as at present the school only has 21 pupils but can accomodate 70-80!

Really happy!....nice early christmas present!

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anonandlikeit · 22/12/2008 22:09

Well done, i'm so pleased you have found the best school for your ds without a battle.
My ds used the preschool services from our local sn school (sounds very similar to the one you describe) & it was fantastic.
I hope he enjoys big school

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