Hi
My daughter is 8 and going into year 4. She is dyslexic, autistic and most probably has ADHD and has EBSNA (attendance around 37% last year). She is very high masking and can flip between running around to being frozen with anxiety.
We are currently going through the EHCP assessment and I'm looking at schools and trying to figure out the right setting for her. Her current school cannot meet her need, they support the EHCP and haven't officially said that yet but we had to do a parental EHCP application and they have caused trauma by not only not meeting her needs but also doing the exact things that cause her to be anxious and deregulated.
We sent all her paperwork to Burlington House before term ended and they said no that her needs required more 1-1 adult support which they could not meet. Was disappointed. We haven't sent our paperwork to Abingdon House yet but also they can't offer a trial unless the LA has consulted with them. I'm assuming it might be a battle to get the LAs to consult an independent school?
The EHCP is due to be completed mid/end September, do I need to prepare myself that we may have months of trying to find the right school?
She still is unable to read (was unable attend English or Maths for the whole of year 3), her learning gap is so wide I'm not convinced a mainstream school will be able to manage her level of dyslexia and that she will be able to access a mainstream classroom when her anxiety around her dyslexia and struggling within the classroom is so high she cannot go in at all!
She is high functioning incredible social, chatterbox and I believe in the right environment she will thrive. Her happy place is the stables and she is able to go on her own for pony days with no issues, listen and communicate.
We are in South London.
Any experience of the Cavendish group?
Anyone with a child with a similar profile, what setting worked for your child.
Thank you