Really sorry this is so long, I'm pulling my hair out at the moment.
My son is currently in year 5. He was diagnosed with dcd/dyspraxia in 2023 and finally received his ADHD diagnosis last year.
There are things which have helped previously which he hasn't had this year. To help reduce distractions in the classroom he had noise cancelling headphones, privacy screen around his work area. They used to take him out of the classroom to complete tests. They don't do any of this now and he's struggling. Can we insist they bring these back? His test scores have drastically declined this year.
His teacher last year also really got that practicing stuff that he was struggling with/uncertain of at home helped improved his confidence. They've refused to engage at all on that this year. Can these things even be in an IDP? I'm guessing not but I know it makes such a difference, it's so frustrating.
They've also put him in a class for next year without any friends and are refusing to move him. This is against a backdrop where I've repeatedly been in contact with them about his anxiety recently. Is this an IDP thing, as I'm pretty certain he's going to be upset and dysregulated in that class next year. We've had an experience in the past where they put him in a class without friends and then punished him when he was dysregulated. I am so worried it will happen again.