Hi. Apologies in advance for any waffle or tangents I go off on within this message.
My son has been awarded a brilliant, concise really clear (so far, draft) EHCP, and from what little I've read, this is a rarirty so we feel really lucky.
But what do we do now? It's about as clear as mud to us (that, or I'm a bit dim). We've selected our "preferred" provision but after much searching it seemed more like the lesser of evils rather than it being the right fit, and that is in no way meant to be seen as reflection of any of the provisions we looked at. He sort of falls into that gap of being too high needs for mainstream but not high needs enough for specialists settings.
SEMH is his identified need within the EHCP, he's on the pathway for ASD/ADHD/both diagnosis.
It feels about as clear as mud to us. We spoke to his named case worker but we weren't sure what we were supposed to be asking. I may have missed it somewhere but we didn't even know you could name more than one provision!
The named provision spoke with me yesterday and said they are going to say they cannot meet need. I went a bit blank tbh as its not wholly unexpected and I have my doubts as to whether it would have been the right fit for him but this conversation was done 'off the books' so to speak. I'm not sure what to do with this info. They alluded to our going back to the draft and saying we've changed our mind and naming some other provision but what?
The cynic in me can't help but feel this is about more than what's actually being said, but what do I question? Can I ask them what needs is it they can't meet? When i speak with the case worker can I say that the provision have had this conversation with me, even though they are in consultation with them?
I feel a bit lost, like I'm fumbling around in the dark trying to find my way and I have no clue where I'm going or what I'm doing and the only person who gets 'hurt' by this is my child.
Many thanks. (I can give any further info if needed).