DC has EHCP in place, mainstream secondary school. Diagnosed with dyslexia, ADHD, dysgraphia and dyscalculia. They are now in y10 and I feel so deflated that the school still don't really seem to "get" my child.
Just had parents evening, 5 min online appts. All very positive, joins in well in class, works hard, nothing to worry about... any questions? 3 2 1, next teacher appears. But what about the lack of notes from lessons, the constant worksheets they are given which can't be typed on, the mountain of loose sheets of paper that are supposed to be glued in but are left screwed up in the school bag. They just need to write a bit more... They just need to revise all the topics. The 1 GCSE with an NEA, they have scored a 7 for that part but a 2 in the exam part, in a mock after Easter.
They use a laptop, like most lessons but won't do homework unless nagged constantly and all I seem to do is ask them about homework. I try to help but get told they don't need help. Seem to be on track for 2s and 3s in all GCSEs but i feel they are capable of so much more, if only there was another way of teaching / supporting them.
The SENCO is ok, but the teachers don't really seem to follow the EHCP, it feels like as all seems ok, they use a laptop, answer questions, then all is ok. Nearly all the teachers said how they perform well verbally but this is not reflected in wrtten work. Homework is often peer marked so the teacher isn't checking it.
Not sure what i want to say really, apart from I'm so worried. I am constantly arguing with DC about homework but I know that they learn by talking about things, doing quizzes, mindmaps. Basically doing revision together, short sessions but they don't want to do that any more. They have extra sessions at school for the core subjects but I feel this isn't enough, or rather not the right type of help. DC seems to think they will pass all their subjects and if I try to say they need to do some revision to keep on track, make sure all will be ok, they get offended and upset. Any excuse not to do homework, although they do it eventually but no feedback is ever given.
It is basically a constant worry.