DS is 15 and in year 10. He is returning on Tuesday after a 3 day suspension for swearing at the deputy head, who came to remove him from a class after he was told off for talking and being disruptive. DS has inattentive ADHD and school has been a bit of a rollercoaster since year7 to say the least. The school presents itself as supportive, and I am supportive of the school as a whole, but it's very focused on results (considered to be the 'best school' locally, very tight catchment etc etc) and it feels to me that they are keen to push him (and other children who are not going to do well in exams) out before the end of year 10. I am trying to find out whether they can actually do this, or if they will be simply upping the sanctions (which it feels like they've been doing for the past year) - part of the problem seems that the sanction process seems very unclear and inconsistent e.g. another pupil suspended for a day for punching someone. Can I ask to see their policy - if there is one? I feel like he is on a conveyor belt to the exit. He had an 'off-site direction' before Easter for 2 weeks at another school, for taking a photo of a maths class and posting it on snapchat (no faces or pupils in the photo), which while is not ideal, did not seem to warrant missing his mocks and having 2 weeks at another school. While I obviously do not condone the recent swearing at a teacher, he was very agitated and upset and the whole thing should have been handled differently / better, but he has now been escalated to a 3 day suspension. I think this was partly done to fit in with the Easter hols, as he was sent home on the Tuesday and told he would be off for the rest of the week. I am trying to get him a slightly reduced timetable and feel he needs to be treated as someone with additional needs, rather than just being 'punished' all the time. He feels the teachers hate him and is very unmotivated by school now, to the point that I worry he will end up not going and then crashing out of the system in year 11.