Hoping anyone has some advice either way!
DS7 has struggled with getting his words/thoughts on paper since starting school. A recent Ed Psych report showed extremely high cognition but average processing speed. He does not show his cognitive ability at academic work at all.
OT report has found gross motor deficits, fine motor deficits, low muscle tone, hand hypermobility and he now needs SALT, OT and Physio!
Both reports say he would benefit from extra time in tasks and tests.
He can use cutlery, do up buttons and write but is super slow and he avoids doing any or all of these by using distraction strategies.
He ride a bike, swim but completely uncoordinated and he’s been stuck at stage 3 for past 3 years, can’t throw, can’t jump and runs like a newborn lamb. His confidence is starting to take a hit and he says he knows he’s not like the other kids.
He meets 3 out of 4 criteria for DCD diagnosis as they don’t feel his daily function is impacted enough but in the same breath they say, due to his intelligence, he is probably clever enough to come up with ways to make sure he can get just get by with activities.
We don’t need a diagnosis as we’ll try and start all these therapies anyway but it does feel off to me that he needs all these interventions for supposedly disparate issues.
A diagnosis would be super helpful for the school though. They can’t get their heads around this long list of deficits that don’t fall under a global disorder and aren’t interested in accommodations to support him to show his full potential as ‘there’s nothing the matter with him’.
As his mum, I am sure that his issues with organisation of thought when writing is caught up with all the other issues that have been found but I don’t know if I’m way off the mark or what to do now.
Has anybody got an informed view or experience in a situation like this?
Thanks if you made it to this point!!