Hi,
I am just trying to get the education placement right for my DS.
He was diagnosed November 2024 with ASD at 4.5 years, on the phonecall confirming this, the lady said he had strong demand avoidance and when I mentioned PDA (as I was thinking along that area and school did later say they had thought of that) she said I was going to say look along the lines of that and get advice from the PDA website, or something of that effect.
So we have been parenting him in a style with regard to that, his demand avoidance has increased with age and more demands at school, he is scared so can't do things, doesn't want to, will not budge on the idea of doing something unless he wants to. Scared to brush his teeth, put clothes on etc and does make excuses for not being able to do stuff, and crawl somewhere etc to slow things down. If he is pushed on demands, eating dinner etc, he will just shout and get violent and does often say I will do it when I am ready and when I want to, which is sometimes never.
The exact wording on his assessment didnt bother us, but now, LA obviously refusing special school so going to tribunal.
But without having it reported he is ASD with PDA profile (or not) then his EHCp and school he requires won't reflect his needs accurately. And won't be taken as seriously by the LA and autism can (in their eyes) be managed in mainstream.
I have emailed the private company that diagnosed him, but Im not sure they will come back to me now it was done, dusted and paid for over a year ago and I can't get through on the phone.
What could I do in these circumstances? Would they look at their assessment again, would he need to be reassessed now he is older or is there some other profession that can look at the potential PDA part of him, and see if it is there ...or not, just so we can get the evidence correct. I do know they can't diagnose PDA but his assessment currently says diagnosed with ASD and then on another paragraph saying some demand avoidance.
Private EP said very strong demand avoidance and highly non compliant behaviour which has been noted in evidence. Does it matter if we even get a diagnosis of ASD with a PDA profile for his ehcp. Does that matter to the tribunal or his education placement? or his future needs.
Thanks for any comments on this, theres so many areas of all this that's so confusing then something else comes along you need to sort out.