Hi. I was wondering if anyone has ever had a Home adaptations grant from the council.
Background currently live in a 2 bedroom Home with 2 DDs age 10 and 8. (House is owned, not rented). Due to DD 10 being Autistic, and possibly DD 8, we could really do with a 3rd bedroom.
As DDs currently share a room and its not working well at all.
For example currently DD 10 is going to bed in our bed, then moving to hers around 11pm , she will then either stay there or end up moving again, either to our bed again, DH ends up.in her bed or downstairs on the sofa. The issue is any sounds from DD 8 she wakes up and gets upset, she also go's to bed loud, will jump on her sisters who is sleeping, or turn the lights, play the drums etc, all while her sister is sleeping, resulting in her sister getting understandably upset.
We have tried different methods of dealing with this in different ways, from split bedtimes, bedtimes together, sister having ear defenders at night, consequences, school talking to her, to name a few.
The place we are at is we are all sleep deprived. And playing musical beds isn't workable long term. So we are left with 2 options move to a 3 bed house (very expensive currently double our monthly payments). Or convert our home into 3 bedrooms, which is possible with the space we have, but again money is tight.
DD 10 gets DLA middle rate care, lower mobility, I read that we might qualify for a grant from council, however when I went online is seems to be for wet rooms, stair lifts etc.