@Jellybean023 ... we have not got that far. The EP report received just before xmas so things only getting going again now.
EP says highly intelligent hugh IQ and lots of potential (not gifted - we knew this and also a plus)
Reinforces the OT SALt and small classes.
However the school he needs seems to be a unicorn
EP no to Semh as he is not defined by his behaviour, its environmental and also how people treat him.
Ive been to Leith hill open day which contradicted via the Q&A what they said in a NO response earlier in 2025. However they also seem to want to take people who are out of school and that lever of trauma and anxiety alongside ASC.
Wemms has open day this Wednesday.
What i have found as I travel round schools and may be relevant to you (only my view) :
- some school dont start until ks2 or later eg y4/5 - I assume because regardless if boy or girl that its son hard to get diagnoses / get an ehcp / gather evidence / appeal / etcetera that very few cohort exist in early years.
- girls are very much not getting diagnosis / recognising symptoms so all schools are top heavy with boys and the schools recognise this when asked or volunteer the knowledge- Leith Hill want to get to 50/50
- due my my son asc and adhd presentation being somewhat "undesirable" and "naughty" (despite being infrequent and not harmful more disruptive) he cant go to an Indy Mainstream. However if you can find a nurturing one that isn't all about academics and the ehcp then supports the staffing and ot salt - if your daughter is pretty calm behaviour wise maybe that would work. Case of talking to each one I suppose.
I am also struggling between academics and environment. Now and the future etc
If i knew 2 / 3 years ago what i know now he would be in a waldorf school but now thats not an option due to his mainstream behaviour after he broke tllast year and then folk telling me its not academic enough
See it doesn't exist!!
Sorry no help - hope you find something. X