A while ago I posted on another thread about DD: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/secondary/5420017-chronic-fatigue-a-levels-argh-help?page=1
TLDR: DD is in Y12, is super smart, is doing 3 A'levels (physics, maths, further maths) but has CFS and cannot cope with in person schooling.
Since I first posted she now has had a formal CFS diagnosis which is on her medical notes (and I have shared with school and LA).
I have applied for an EHCP and been turned down at the first hurdle (no need to assess because school have not yet shown that they can't meet needs: the school did not engage in the EHCP process AT ALL). We have done mediation and I could appeal.
She is not attending because of a medical condition (does that make a difference?).
Currently she is attending very part time (going in for one subject (physics) and self-teaching maths). There is no way she is ever going to be able to attend physically in person for long days either at school or anywhere else. Going in for one lesson a day is working well -- but it is not going to get her to where she needs to be.
The school are hand wringing and saying it's all a grey area because she's post 16, which I know is true.
I feel we are in a situation where it is clear she can't attend; she could either do part time in school with some online / tutoring; or she could do it all from home. We cannot afford to do this privately ourselves.
I feel like LA and school are both kicking the can down the road and arguing about how difficult it all is while doing FA for my daughter, who has now missed nearly a whole term of school. (She is actually self-studying and doing quite a good job of keeping up but could really do with some support from teachers.)
Any thoughts from the wisdom of MN? Thank you in advance.