Hello,
I'm just after some advice on reduced timetables, and sorry this is long, so please bear with me:
My son started school last week in Reception at our local mainstream. For context he is suspected ASD and ADHD (sensory processing difficulties, social / emotional regulation difficulties) and has a speech and communication delay (approx 1 year behind). We're on the waitlists for both diagnosis and an EHCP.
We knew school would be a huge step for him and did everything we could think of to try and prepare him for this new chapter. He was previously doing 3 full days at a pre-school, but they put a lot of provision/adjustments in place for him but ultimately he was doing the days and enjoyed his time there with little issue.
The handover was thorough between the settings, I've had multiple meetings with the SENCO, his teachers, etc and we did loads of transition sessions prior to the summer holidays and my son seemed to enjoy the setting; he was excited to start school last week.
He, and his peers too, (so not just him) have had a very phased start with half days etc, and today was their first full day at school. My son wasn't keen on going in this morning and apparently there was lots of tears and he took a long time to calm down. He's been becoming more and more reluctant as the week has gone on, and his sleep is also starting to suffer and he's started waking up at odd hours of night with his mind seemingly racing which also won't be helping him during the day.
The teacher today said that she thinks he would benefit from a reduced timetable. Now I know from conversations with the SENCO and doing my own research this was always a possibility but honestly I didn't think they'd suggest it so soon?
When I asked what's prompted this, she said he's had a difficult day and didn't settle in very well. I've not had any other negative feedback about him all week, only on one morning I was told he was 'slightly unsettled' so I assumed (maybe wrongly so) that perhaps they were managing the difficulties I knew he'd face and we'd discussed, and he was mostly okay with some support. I plan to ask further at my meeting next week for more specifics.
If a reduced timetable will help my son to build confidence in this new setting and settle in more at his own pace then I'm all for it. Tbh I did worry it might be too much too soon for him. But I am going to ask for a formal integration plan as I don't want him just indefinitely on part time hours. There needs to be a clear plan for progression to full time attendance or as close to as possible in my opinion.
However this is all very new to me, so I just wanted to reach out and see if there's anything else I should be asking of the school or what I should know about reduced timetables before having a further conversation with his teacher & SENCO next week. Any useful resources would be gratefully received - it seems a real mixed bag of info when I Google 🫣
Also has anyone been in a similar situation and would be willing to let me know what did/didn't work for their child with regards to reduced timetables, and what your integration plan roughly looked like so I have something to work with at my meeting next week?
He is 5 early next year if that makes any difference.
Thank you if you've made it this far!