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Head banging/hitting

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Don40 · 27/07/2025 13:41

Has anyone felt with a sen child that hits or bangs their head? I want advice on how you changed the behaviour. Also if you had a child who done this when did they stop or cope with it now?

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perpetualplatespinning · 27/07/2025 16:32

DS1 headbangs. Less now than when he was younger. The improvement has been because of his improving MH and his educational and sensory needs being met. It happens more when he is dysregulated, so the aim is to minimise that.

Don40 · 27/07/2025 16:35

Happens for my son at school. He becomes dysregulated. What sensory do you find works best? How do you stop dysregulation? What age did it improve?
Many thanks

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perpetualplatespinning · 27/07/2025 16:41

It has been more of a gradual improvement rather than being able to say it improved at a specific age.

Preventing dysregulation is about knowing the triggers. Keeping a detailed diary helps. Then, depending on the trigger, avoiding or working on it. Working on strategies to deal with lower level dysregulation before it escalates. An EHCP, including multiple therapies, that meets DS’s needs helps. Medication has also helped him.

We have a lot of sensory equipment/toys from bigger things such as trampoline, sensory swings, steamroller, to smaller things like a bodysok, weighted blanket, cuddle ball, fidget toys/stress toys. Sensory OT helps to understand individual sensory needs.

What support is DS receiving? Does he have an EHCP?

SL22 · 27/07/2025 20:10

Hi, my autistic son used to headbang alot . When he was 3/4/5 he used to do it alot , something would just frustrate him and he would do it , it would happen so quick it was hard to prevent. At one point it was so regular he had a permanent bruise on his forehead. He's now 6 and a half and no longer does it. How old is your child?

Don40 · 27/07/2025 20:38

He has an ehcp in place. An waiting for an OT to help actually have it this week. We are looking sensory aids bit we are on low income.

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Don40 · 27/07/2025 20:40

SSL2 sounds similar to my son. He is 6 about to start year 2. He has a helmet but wont wear it as he doesn't like hates. School wont allow him to attend unlessnits worn. Very diffic5time.

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perpetualplatespinning · 28/07/2025 12:07

Have you looked at grants for sensory equipment/toys? Some areas have a lending library too. It is worth asking around locally in case your area does. For smaller items, Newlife has Play therapy pods you can loan for free, which have some sensory items.

It sounds like a review of the EHCP is required. What support is in the EHCP? OT, including SIOT, can be included in the EHCP. The school can refuse to allow DS to attend like that.

A home OT assessment would be helpful too.

Don40 · 28/07/2025 19:10

Thank you I will look into that. EHCP has recently been reviewed recently when he wasn't able to attend school. Its been a nightmare tbh. OT is come for home visit Wednesday although I'm not hopeful this will do much. He would be a dream if it wasn't for the hitting.

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perpetualplatespinning · 28/07/2025 21:32

What support is currently in the EHCP? Is ongoing sensory OT input in F? If the school is unlawfully excluding DS and DS is becoming dysregulated at school, it sounds like the EHCP needs improving. Following the review, did the LA amend the EHCP?

Don40 · 29/07/2025 21:23

He has had alot of help in place from PBS . The LA contacted me today about changes as school said he would be better in a special school. I have to go through the ehcp online to give comments .

He is the sweetest boy and he has improved in so many ways. It's heartbreaking as he loves school and he miss his friends. He is behind and now even more so.

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perpetualplatespinning · 29/07/2025 21:35

What do you think? If you want DS in mainstream, you have a right to a mainstream education unless it would be incompatible with the efficient education of others and no reasonable steps could be taken to avoid that. If you want SS, do you have a school in mind?

Go through all the evidence with highlighters. Highlight all DS’s special educational needs in one colour and then all the provision to meet the needs in another colour. Each need should have corresponding provision.

Then go through the EHCP and make sure all the highlighted needs are in B and the highlighted provision is in F.

Make a note of anything the LA has omitted from the EHCP, any needs without corresponding provision, any woolly and vague wording, anything the evidence has failed to include, and any evidence the LA has failed to consider.

When you go through F, look out for vague and woolly wording. For example, “access to”, “would benefit from”, “regular”, “up to”, “or equivalent”, “opportunities for”, “as appropriate”, “would be useful/helpful”, “such as”, “e.g.”, “etc.”, “as required”, “as advised”, “key adult(s)”, “small group”. Provision must be detailed, specified and quantified, otherwise the EHCP isn’t worth the paper it is written on and cannot be enforced.

When you find vague and woolly wording, check the evidence to see if they are woolly and vague or whether the LA has watered down provision. If the evidence is vague and woolly, ask the LA to go back to the report writers to make the reports detailed, specified and quantified. If the LA has watered down provision, request the LA stick to the wording in the evidence.

Also make sure any health or social care provision that educates or trains is in F. For example, LAs like to put things like SALT, OT, etc. in G (health care provision) when it belongs in F.

And make sure the LA stick to the timescales. They must finalise the amended EHCP within 8 weeks of sending the amendment notice, and so within a maximum of 12 weeks from the review meeting.

Don40 · 30/07/2025 07:58

Thank you great advice.

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SL22 · 08/08/2025 19:15

@Don40

Hi there , hope your well. Sorry to hear your son hasn't been able to attend school due to the headbanging. My son was on a reduced timetable of 2 hours a day due to his headbanging. He is now in a sen school.
Any changes since your last post .
I do understand how stressful it is .

Is your son able to cope with most things in mainstream? X

Don40 · 11/08/2025 14:36

@SL22 sorry for the delay. We have been enjoying the summer holidays here. I have nonodea what school he is ment to be attending after the summer. It's a waiting game but on a positive not we have had O.T at home today and given us some help with sensory diet in the hope this will help. I jave never met anyone else who has a son who head bangs. He can cope with main stream to a degree but is taken out of class most the time in a smaller group and is really behind compared to classmates. How is you child doing? How old? Thanks for asking. X

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SL22 · 11/08/2025 15:16

Hi , my son will be 7 this week.

His headbanging was really intense, like a flick of a switch . Was multiple times a day. But its pretty much stopped completely.

Ah that's interesting with the sensory diet, could u maybe message me some of that info if u don't mind.

That's good he's been able to stay in mainstream. The school my son was previously at was very supportive.

My son can still get emotionally dysregulated and upset/ temper but its definitely improved over time. Having language has helped too. Xx

Don40 · 11/08/2025 18:11

@SL22 absolutely happy to share. We are waiting to see if he is returning to mainstream after the holidays. Your son sounds very similar to mine.

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