Hi all,
I’d really appreciate some advice from anyone with experience of EOTAS (Education Otherwise Than At School). My son is 9, autistic, and has been out of school since last September due to severe anxiety and mental health difficulties. He has an EHCP naming EOTAS, but in reality, nothing meaningful has been put in place (other than Mindjam which is incredible)
At the moment, the only provision is three remote sessions a week with a MindJam mentor – someone he trusts and is able to engage with. Aside from that, I am home educating him myself using a heavily adapted curriculum that focuses on emotional regulation, sensory needs, and short bursts of learning based on his interests. It’s very limited, because his capacity is so reduced.
I’ve asked for a package that is genuinely individualised and based on what he can currently manage, which includes:
- His existing MindJam sessions
- Educational subscriptions that he can access without direct teaching or interaction (e.g. Twinkl, EdPlace, gaming-based learning tools)
- Technology to support access to learning
- A very slow, low-demand approach with no pressure, to avoid further regression
He is not able to tolerate in-person tuition, group work, or online sessions with unfamiliar professionals. I’ve explained this multiple times, but the LA keeps suggesting the usual things like home tuition or online schools – which simply aren’t realistic right now. I’ve made a stage 1 complaint and am waiting for a response, but in the meantime I feel like I’m fighting a system that doesn’t understand or want to adapt.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? What should EOTAS actually look like when a child can’t manage direct teaching? And what kind of support have others managed to secure in these cases?
Thanks so much for reading – it’s exhausting having to constantly justify why your child can’t fit into a box that wasn’t designed for them.