I have 2 DC with EOTAS/EOTIS (EOTIS is currently the preferred by SENDIST) and have supported others to get EOTAS/EOTIS (with or without the C on the end) too. The good is DSs have their needs met, and it works well for them. The downside is it isn’t the easy option, especially in the early days.
It is important to know EOTAS/EOTIS is not EHE. With the latter, parents are responsible for education. With the former, the LA retains responsibility. They cannot compel you to organise, facilitate or deliver the provision. The LA is responsible and that duty is non-delegable.
Many have to appeal for a proper EOTAS/EOTIS package, I'm afraid. LAs often think they can get away with funding a bit of tuition and maybe a small amount of therapies or Mindjam and sport/exercise if they are feeling generous. A good EOTAS package is far more than this. Done properly, it isn’t the cheap option LAs like to think it is.
Legally, EOTAS/EOTIS is only possible if it is inappropriate for provision to be made in a school.
What do you think? Do you think a school can meet DS’s needs? If your preference is a school, non-wholly independent schools can be named even if they object when consulted. You only need an offer of a place from wholly independent schools. Although the LA may force you to appeal. Also, have you looked at any potential schools in other LAs that are within travelling distance? 1hr15 is generally considered the maximum recommended travel time at secondary. Some travel further, though.
If DS is out of school now, is alternative provision in place?