DGS is in the nursery at his local primary. His EHCP (global development delay) states that he 'needs eyes' on him/supervision at all times because clusters of focal seizure activity can lead to longer seizures (he has rescue meds in school) and includes when he uses the bathroom and also at lunchtime.
I take my grandchildren to school a little more than my daughter does to accommodate her shifts at work. I told the school office yesterday that I would be collecting DGS at 12.30pm today because of a physio appointment at 1pm.
There was no one in the office when I arrived to let me in the at the school gates. After 5 min or so a parent came out with her child (release button inside premises) and I went to the office. There was no one about and I waited another 5 min or so until I saw a teacher walking past. I asked them if they could sign us out and find DGS as I was now tight for time. We went to the Foundation playground and he was no where to be seen. There was an adult 'supervising' in the playground. A teacher came out of the foundation building and went to look for DGS. Time passed, she came and said she couldn't find him and went inside to look. Then again came out and started looking outside. My other grandchildren in the meantime had seen me and came over to talk. They went around the perimeter of the nursery fence and shouted for DGS and he came running over. He was not being supervised.
We arrived in the hospital (5 min drive) a few minutes past our appointment time and the appointment then started. A minute later DGS had a large seizure. This indicates that he must have had some previously in school as a series of smaller absences/focals always lead to a larger seizure. Nothing was recorded in his 'epilepsy book' to say anything had happened in school.
The physio stopped the appointment and I took him home and rang daughter to tell her. She had to pull over (was driving) as she had started to feel sick while I was telling her what had happened. She rang me back to say she'd vomited.
She asked how was she to concentrate at work knowing her son wasn't safe/being supervised. And it was only a matter of time before she got 'that' phone call.
He has seizures where he turns blue as his brain activity can stop his heart - this has happened since being newborn (8 weeks prematurely due to mum having Covid).
It's blatantly obvious that school is not following the EHCP - we've suspected this all along. There is a huge list of tasks which he should be doing 1:1 with staff everyday and we think we should be seeing evidence of this in the form of some sort of progress. The EHCP is very prescriptive.
Should the school be recording what they are doing with regards to following the EHCP? And can we ask to see the evidence? Because we think that the EHCP has been completely disregarded.
How major is this incident on a scale of 1-10, and what can we do protect DGS? Is this a reportable occurrence/safeguarding and if so who to?
I had to go back to school later to pick up my older grandchildren and DGS was still showing signs of being post ictal. The deputy head asked if she could have a word and I said that I would rather she spoke to my daughter tomorrow as I felt too upset to discuss anything rationally.
How does anyone ever know if an EHCP is being followed? Do we just rely on the school's verbal statements that they do? The school have really let us down today.