Anyone been in this situation.
I have raised concerns for over a year that I believe my DD may need a referral for ASD/ADHD. School said no. I arranged for a private MH assessment in September to see if it was worth pursuing, school refused to complete forms so I parked it for a while.
As a note this has not come out of nowhere - Dad has ADHD, Anxiety & Depression. Aunt on other side has a list of MH diagnosis as long as your arm.
Fast forward 4 months - she's been suspended, school finally agree to support a referral saying they should have taken family history into account.
I kick off the private initial assessment again but no - they will only work with Cahms / local NHS to maintain the integrity of the diagnosis.
Surely if CAHMS are happy to accept a diagnosis as long as it meets NICE guidelines they should? One of the providers I am looking at is even the bloody lead for the NHS trust in our area who does 1 day a week privately!
She's Y9 so I really cannot wait 2 years for NHS.