I was wondering if anyone could advise? I am an LSA at a small primary assisting 6yr old non verbal twins with quite pronounced learning difficulties. I have been toilet training the children along with a colleague since September and one child is making real progress though the other is not. We have a star chart and provide lots of encouragement and prompting and a sticker for going and sitting on the toilet which the children are eager to participate in.
For the last hour and a half of the day, I am the sole carer for the twins. I spend 90% of this time on my own (post lunch) in the toilet with one or both of the children, reading stories whilst they sit on the loo. One child is either not pooing at all at school or having huge explosions every few days (for want of a better description). This child is showing no signs of being aware of feeling wet and will often come off the toilet after ten mins and proceed to do a poo in the classroom whilst playing. The teacher suggested that pull ups may be best for the time being with pants underneath so the child can still feel wetness but accidents can be contained and not all over clothes, back, legs etc. Mom does not want to do this as she feels it will undermine the work she is doing at home. The children use a potty at home as they are waiting for OT to provide a disabled toilet seat and rail and they are in nappies at night. I'm at a loss what to do! Has anyone successfully toilet trained SEND twins and if so what did you do? I