My niece is 5 and diagnosed ASD/ADHD with very violent behaviours. She was permanently excluded from 1 nursery - she does now have an ECHP and has been approved for specialist but there are no spaces in our area.
She has had a nightmare start to reception and cannot cope with a class of 30 so she constantly lashes out and hits children - they have tried giving her a room of her own with an ipad and a 1-1 so she is totally away from other children but she just runs away - she loves running and being free. If there is another child near her she will just lash out - school have suggested a part time timetable but SIL is refusing it as she doesn't want her at home as she can't cope with her either and when she is at school it is the only break she gets from her.
She was excluded for the 3rd time yesterday but SIL refused to pick her up, so she spent all afternoon on the playground with her 1-1 TA as she is a danger to the other children.
I am on the emergency contact list but SIL has asked me to not pick up phone to the school because there is no way she can have her at home. She says school are obliged to keep her there all day from 830-3pm and they can't insist on a part time timetable, - I can see her issue but niece cannot cope at school but she can't cope at home either she is violent whether at home or school. Exclusions and suspensions probably wouldn't happen if she could agree to a part time timetable. My question is she isn't going to agree to a part time timetable so what happens next?