Hi, Here is our situation. 8 year old son in year 3 was previously in a mainstream setting with EHCP (speech delay and diagnosed with autism and adhd).
We had many challenges in the mainstream leadership as we felt lots of disability discrimination- but he proved many wrong when we got high marks on his year 1 phonics test and breezed through his year 2 maths KS1. However he was segregated due to him not liking the large classroom and as a result has 1:1 TA support (year 2 TA was great before they didn’t try with him). We felt he needs friendships and were told the ARP would be smaller, help his regulation and re-introduce him to others.
one term in this new ARP and we have realised most of the kids are non verbal and our son while he has challenges mainly regulation, he is pushed down on his reading and maths level even though he is doing great at home. They barely listen to any feedback from us and tell us to trust the process and then give him reception level work when he has shown he is way beyond this. It seems very lazy.
what are our options as his EHCP is coming up and would be interested to hear other parents experiences of ARPs and challenges faced?