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Punchbag- good or bad?

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surreygirl1987 · 07/12/2024 21:58

My son is autistic and has ADHD. He occasionally lashes out at school. It is rare but he does hit his peers, on average around once a half term. He is in Year 1.

He is impulsive and gets angry easily. We're trying to think of strategies to help him manage this. Someone has suggested a punching bag at home might help, for him to use as a release for emotions. However, I'm concerned that this could have the opposite effect - that it will teach him to use his fists when he is upset or angry / somehow train him to punch people as he will get used to it. We did try him on judo but he didn't enjoy it and we didn't force him to continue.

Can anyone advise? Would a punchbag be a good or bad thing for him? Thanks so much.

PS grateful for any alternative ideas we can try at home. We've considered diet (he was low in iron, so he has supplements, plus other supplements/vitamins), he does a kids' journal before bed each evening, gets plenty of sleep, plenty of exercise (and we've just decided we'll take him out for a few minutes run around the field next to our house each morning which might help set him up for the day), very little screen time, firm consequences and reward system, and we're going to trial ADHD medication soon. If there's anything else we can try from home (school is a whole other matter and would need a whole different thread - he has an EHCP) we'd be grateful.

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surreygirl1987 · 31/01/2026 00:09

BrightYellowTrain · 28/01/2026 13:18

I did not attack the OP Hmm. Neither did I dictate anything.

Oh my god, in 2024 I told you to move on, and now it's 2026 and you're still posting on my thread 🤣 You seriously have a problem.

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surreygirl1987 · 31/01/2026 00:11

summergirl1967 · 28/01/2026 13:05

I'm sorry you had to police your own query for help @surreygirl1987 This journey with our neurodivergent kiddos (I have a 5 year old dragon) is hard enough emotionally, mentally, and physically. If only other adults would be kind enough to respect when to step back and just encourage not dictate. It's not personal. We're not rejecting you. We're looking for support and space to share. Not attacks. Be kind!! Good luck to all on this journey to raise good humans. Be kind everyone!

Thanks @summergirl1967

And an update for anyone reading this thread... we didn't get the punch bag in the end. My son started ADHD medication, and we also did more activities that the OT recomended each morning before school, which had a really positive effect on how he coped at school each day. No hitting for many months now, which is brilliant, and he is thriving. Long may it last! ❤️

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BrightYellowTrain · 31/01/2026 04:05

No more of a ‘problem’ than a random who needs to NC in order of resurrect a zombie thread to tell someone to ‘be kind’.

As I said, you don’t get to police where or when I post on a public forum.

surreygirl1987 · 01/02/2026 00:56

BrightYellowTrain · 31/01/2026 04:05

No more of a ‘problem’ than a random who needs to NC in order of resurrect a zombie thread to tell someone to ‘be kind’.

As I said, you don’t get to police where or when I post on a public forum.

You really need help 🤦🏼‍♀️

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BrightYellowTrain · 01/02/2026 03:08

Cheers.

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