Looking for advice regarding our 4-year-old son. He has a diagnosis of autism and significant developmental delays, and his EHCP is currently being finalized. We're planning for him to start school in September 2025, with the EHCP currently indicating specialist or resource-based provision.
We’ve named a specialist school in a different local authority as our parental preference. We recently attended an open day there and feel it’s the right fit. We’ve also chosen a backup resource-based school in the same area.
We currently live far from family, with little support, and feel isolated. We're planning to move to the new local authority in the coming months to be closer to family. Our house is on the market, and my partner is job-hunting in the area, while I can work remotely. If needed, we can temporarily stay with family there, as they’ve offered to support us.
However, our current local authority has stated they won’t consult with schools outside their area and are continuing to pursue local options. They’ve contacted our preferred school but received pushback, questioning why they’re reaching out to an out-of-area school. Our SEND lead worker is hard to contact, and although SENDIASS provided general information about moving with an EHCP, it’s not specific to our situation.
We’re also looking for support from the new local authority SEND team to identify a preschool for our son until he starts school in 2025 and to assist with the EHCP transfer and school application. We’ve mentioned to our SEND lead worker that we could use a family member’s address in the new area to expedite the EHCP transfer, but we’re unsure if this would affect his current nursery placement.
We’re hesitant to move without a preschool or support in place but wonder if this might be necessary. Can anyone with experience or understanding of this process offer advice? It feels overwhelming, and we’re not sure what steps to take next.