My dd has textbook (stereotype male?) ASD (lining toys up but never playing with them, no facial expressions, extreme need for sameness) together with anorexia and OCD, but is academically exceptionally able. After moving to secondary school, she couldn't cope anymore with the school environment (noises, changes, social interactions), refused to eat and couldn't stop crying in school. She was allowed to leave class whenever she chose, so she spent most of the school day with the school nurse. We took her out of school as she'd lost so much weight, she was a walking skelleton, growing lanugo hairs over body and face. However, her grades remained top of class (she'd been working several years ahead in chore subjects before starting seconday, so that was to be expected). The requirement for an EHCP seems to be that there is evidence that a child can't meet academic expectations without interventions. Our problem is that our dd could probably pass her GCSEs right now 3 years early with good grades without ever going back to school but it's obviously a problem that she is unable to attend school and leave her room. How do we get the help she needs to attend school if her grades aren't suffering? Her problem is that maths, music, English, science etc is extremely easy for her, while all basic human functions - social interactions, eating, sleeping, wearing and choosing clothes, travelling, going outside, being exposed to light and noises etc are extremely difficult and stressful for her. She is currently homeschooling herself but at some point she needs to take GCSEs/A levels and get a university degree, and for that she'll need accommodations and support. Has anyone got an EHCP despite exceptional grades?