DS is on the SEN register at school. He is in the last year of primary and was diagnosed with ASD and dyslexia earlier this year.
Firstly, his SEN plan says the primary area of concern is ‘Cognition and learning’. We want this to also include ‘Social, Emotional and Mental Health’. A change in timetable, a supply teacher he doesn't like etc may make him anxious or unhappy and he will then not go to school, he likes to be in control. He will not say he is unhappy at school or at home and carries on as normal (compliant child, quiet, a handful of friends, no drama on a day to day basis at school) but lets issues build up until he cannot go in. We sometimes get clues at home (we have a low demand parenting style as it makes life easier at home) that he is unhappy but not always so its difficult to track and warn school and formulate a plan. It is not a permanent state though and there are peaks and troughs. This lack of consistency across settings made the ASD assessment hard. He masks very, very well.
The SEN plan only has two actions both, about learning (e.g. spellings). We feel the SEN plan could be more helpful on the emotional side of things. Any tips?
I have not ruled out applying for an ECHP assessment but I am aware that the (private) ASD assessment was very difficult to conduct this time last year - and originally came back inconclusive - so I would have to build up a body of evidence to feed into it. I know that I will have to do one when he moves to secondary as I cannot see that move going well but I don’t know what his reaction will be to a different setting.