Gosh I don’t even know where to start, I’m a bit of a blubbering mess and having a pity party evening.
My son is 10, is in year 6 and is nearly at the year mark for EBSA. We tried a phased return in Feb/ March and it failed. He has been consistent in saying he finds his school too noisy, there’s too many people and he finds the work tricky.
His soon have been nothing short of difficult. When I applied for the EHCP they supported but then did a witness statement against him having one for our first tribunal hearing, it was full of lies and was hurtful. They challenges his autism assessment as his nurture TA didn’t agree. Interestingly they sent this after I refused to deregister for the second time at that point.
I have a private EP who is great and picked up many missed needs, who recommend a specialist school for year 7 and EOTAS/ AP for now. The LA commissioned an OT (who we already privately used at home and school before the EBSA) who picked up his sensory needs are linked to the environment, highlighted the private AP we pay for shows how his needs can be met, recommend small class size for F and said without this he won’t attend or thrive. The La refused to include this and any wording from the private EP saying their EP was sufficient enough, although the LA EP did not assessment of their own and used the private ones findings. I’ve tried and tried and tried to work with the LA over getting this wording in and they just throw Sen reg 11 at me, but then don’t seem to see his outcomes can’t be met if he won’t attend?
We’ve found a section 41 school which he adored and they’ve offered him a space, but his current mainstream primary have said they can meet needs and they’ve been named. I asked to speak with the school before they sent this in but they ignored me. I’ve been asking the LA for AP since January and they too ignore me, they blocked my first attempt to go to the ombudsman and I’m now trying a second time (they told the ombudsman they would respond to me and then never did).
I’m going to appeal and I’m going to take my EP and the OT with me but it’s hit me tonight, I feel like I’m not doing enough or maybe I’m not seeing something if his school feel they can meet needs. I know for the appeal I’m going to be need to be seen as trying but I have been, he simply finds it too noisy and busy and the plan does nothing to sort this as the LA have refused to include the wording that would get him in somewhere suitable.
I’m not sure what I’m even asking maybe I just need to maybe not feel so alone or have a pity party for one. I pay for private AP and he absolutely loves it, has never missed and session has friends which shows to me that he can attend the right setting.