Looking for some advice on steps to take for ADHD assessment for DS year 12, almost 17.
Background-GCSEs quite challenging, difficulty with revision/procrastination/lack of organisation/lots of scaffolding needed. Passed all GCSEs with mix of 7/6s/5s, lower than predicted and now in a new 6th form where things starting to unravel.
I think there are many signs and self esteem is taking a hit but GP is not keen to refer due to long waiting times, his personal thoughts of over diagnosis, and has suggested limiting screen time and reading books/quiet mindfulness. Good ideas but not the answer IMO.
I have no contact with SENCO at new school, DS self referred to student support as has dyslexia, nothing has happened yet. I have not yet mentioned ADHD suspicions yet, haven't had chance.
I feel time is of the essence due to age, increased expectations/responsibilities/a-level workload so prepared to go private so that we get more of an understanding before adulthood.
Where do we start? Do GP have to know/be onside? Do school need to be consulted first? I'm worried about how long everything takes and that DS might crash out before we can put some support in place.
Any advice?