My child is in y5 and we are looking at secondary schools. She has been diagnoses with ASC and is masking/HF but struggles immensely with sensory processing and especially clothing. She has one brand of trousers she will wear and only sandals all year round. Anything else is unbearable and causes meltdowns. She has been late several times due to struggles with clothing in the morning. She currently attends a school with no uniform. We are not in the catchment for any secondary without uniforms, but there is one just slightly outside.
My question: can this be deemed a social/medical reason to apply for a specific school? I understand she could choose if she had an EHCP, but from my understanding she doesn't require enough support to get one. If she went to a secondary school where they have uniforms and she was exempt due to her needs, she would feel so anxious and singled out that she would refuse to go.
Any insights would be much appreciated. I want to give her the best starting point to her secondary education.