@EndlessLight @Phineyj Thanks, both. This board is really helpful.
I do realise how much trouble LAs are in; I'm just surprised that their policies are not subjected to external auditors.
I think this SENCO is quite genuine, so I'm not sure it's a deliberate twisting of the law. I am surprised though* as she seems fairly experienced in the hands on aspects of SEN, although obviously not the legal side. I think she does have experience of how hard it is to get an EHCP and probably thinks we have no chance.
I am actually in two minds about whether to apply though, maybe partly because of the school's view, but also because we have peaks and troughs with how much DD is affected, so any thoughts would be appreciated.
DD (8) was diagnosed with ASD in May and has also been referred for an ADHD assessment. The main struggles highlighted by the ADOS were unusual eye contact, inability to hold reciprocal conversation, inability to pick up on unspoken social cues, lack of joint attention, lack of understanding of relationships and emotions and sensory-seeking behaviours.
At school she is high-masking and presents as quite outgoing. (Though is quite reliant on one 'best friend' - her friend will often talk to teachers on DD's behalf and DD is lost if her friend is ever not there or wants to play with others). She is generally well-behaved, though is fairly frequently told off for talking. Her report last year said she needed to widen her friendship circle(!)
Academically, she is 'meeting expectations', though I feel she is not quite meeting her potential. She was actually 'greater depth' for reading until the end of year 2 (has just started year 4). She struggles with fine motor skills, particularly handwriting. Unless she puts a huge amount of effort in (and then she says her hand hurts), her writing is quite messy and much larger than it should be for her age (this has been acknowledged by her teachers, but they haven't put much focus on it). She was put in a short handwriting intervention group a couple of years ago, but it didn't really have any effect. Her gross motor skills are good, so I'm not sure about DCD, but suspect maybe dysgraphia.
Outside of school, she is anxious and rigid about routines and rituals, has meltdowns, (kicking, screaming, hitting, trying to bite) mainly over things not going as expected, having to wait or sensory aversions (mainly clothing, bedcovers, getting wet, temperature), is impulsive and quite touchy-feely/sensory-seeking with other people. But this is all very up and down.
Over the past year, for most of the year (apart from the last term, when she was quite settled) we had frequent struggles with getting her into school. It would take over an hour to physically get her out of the house and we often had to carry her into school.
As I said however, this largely improved in the later part of last year, although with the start of a new year, we have had a return. (Though today was better, so perhaps it is improving again).
We had a private sensory OT assessment done last December, which recommended sensory OT sessions amongst other things for us and the school to do. The school has only put in place one of the (minor) recommendations.
Although it was sensory-based, the OT did also do some other tests, including visual-motor integration, which showed a skewed score as her visual perception was on the 87th percentile and her 'putting it into practice' (can't remember the actual term!) was the 17th percentile. The OT said she couldn't actually complete a couple of the other tests as DD complained that her hand hurt too much, which the OT said was problematic as she went through the school as obviously more writing was required.
Sorry, this was long! So without the support of the school, would these things count as evidence:
- school reports showing decrease in reading attainment from greater depth to expected.
- OT report outlining sensory struggles and recommendation for OT sessions.
- OT report showing visual-motor integration discrepancy, perhaps suggestive of further discrepancy between ability and academic progress?
- OT report showing fine motor skills struggles
- Attendance record for last year showing frequent lates (and actually unauthorised absence as many were also marked as that) - though it does show an improvement in the latter part of the year
- emotional dysregulation reported in OT and ASD reports, requiring support? I've asked the SENCO about it a couple of times, most recently in an email she said they can try the five point scale again, but that DD wasn't responsive last time.
*Not sure why I am really as I had to educate the GP on the Right to Choose process!