Son is autistic (diagonised NHS after being on list for 2 years, he is now 5.5 years old).
School suggested he repeat reception, but then retracted that suggestion (and his class size would have been much bigger, losing his peers). We decided better for him to progress to Year One. School have been pretty slow supporting me with EHCP application - had an EP report/referral done that recommended we apply - school happy to support but told me I needed to complete the form myself (this felt a bit odd as it was asking for costs of interventions etc - which I don't know).
Had application for asssessment turned down earlier this month due to lack of detail in reports (school, EP etc) and also that he has made some progress during Reception (but only because they have been able to give 121 at points with his reading).
The EP report said he has writing/reading skills for 2 - 3 year old depending on which skill.
he has meltdowns at home. not at school.
the deadline for appeal is end of Sep. they sent me info about mediator too. do i go ahead with this?
I'm so confused as to what the best option is to increase chances of decision being overturned.
I haven't been able to contact the school as they haven't got back to emails (despite SENCO saying she would check once a week during summer to hear from me).
A mum I know sent over her EHCP assessment appeal letter - to see if I could copy - but finding it overwhelming. I work full time, have other kid, my husband is frigging useless, and i have other repsonsiblities with family.
I have contacted SEN solicitors and had quotes back of £700 - £1000 to handle the appeal. Is this worht it? Surely if the evidence/engagement from school is poor - not much a solicitor can do?
Any advice pls. tearing my hair out. when he received his ASD diagonisis - the consultant was clear if he was stay in mainstream he would need some level of 121 support.