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Does it sound like my child could be dyslexic?

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Kokomjolk · 23/07/2024 16:55

DS is 6, nearly 7, and has finished one year of school (we're not in the UK). I'm a bit concerned about how he's progressing with his reading. In the end of year assessment he achieved the standard that 90% of children are expected to reach, so not in the bottom 10% but not better than that.

He's bilingual, which might make some difference, but the local language is his dominant language and obviously what he has been learning to read. It's a very phonetic language, very simple with few exceptions, so it should be one of the easier languages for learning to read. Of course children start a little later in school here (the year they turn 6) and we did not really push him with literacy skills before he started, but they usually progress quite quickly because they are that much older.

He always does his home reading 5x a week as the school asks but it is heavy going. He reads very slowly with no expression and because it takes him so long to get to the end of a sentence he often doesn't have a good sense of the meaning by the time he has read it. He can see the same word written twice in a row or twice in quick succession and the second time reading it is just as much of a struggle as the first time. He frequently muddles up b and d and many vowels.

He still writes in a mixture of upper case and lower case. Many letters and numerals he still forms backwards. He sometimes doesn't even spell his own name correctly (misses out a letter).

He dislikes reading and writing and will never choose to do it of his own accord. It seems to exhaust him. He will sometimes pick up a book to look at the pictures.

He does however love listening to stories and has excellent comprehension of both his languages. We read to him daily.

Does this sound concerning or is it too soon to tell anything since he's only been in school a year?

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BrumToTheRescue · 23/07/2024 20:24

It could be dyslexia but there are other possibilities too. And it may be because DS is bilingual. The majority of DC catch up but it isn’t unusual for bilingual DC to appear ‘behind’ when younger. Especially if DS is only a year into starting school.

If you are concerned you could look at an educational psychologist assessment? What about a hearing test? What are his gross and fine motor skills like? What is the content of DS’s written work like if someone scribes for him?

Kokomjolk · 24/07/2024 17:10

I'm not sure - we haven't really tried scribing for him. But he speaks well in his dominant language and quite well in English.
Fine motor skills are excellent (he's a keen Lego player), gross motor skills maybe a little below average with ball skills but good overall.
I think we will see how he goes next term... maybe bring it up again if he stops progressing.

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Mothersruin123 · 10/08/2024 12:15

We just had DD10 assessed for dyslexia. The assessor confirmed she is dyslexic and we are now waiting for the detailed report and recommendations.

Some of the traits you mention certainly match with my DD - reading the words is hard, and as a result she struggles to fully comprehend what she is reading, and subsequently answering comprehension questions is very difficult. Her spelling is terrible, but she never had issues with getting letters/numbers mixed up or the wrong way round. She is very creative and as a result her fine motor skills have also always been excellent, but apparently has slow processing issues and will now get extra time in her Y6 SATS so I am glad we got her assessed when we did.

Kids learn at different rates, and with the added complication of multiple languages it might just take a bit longer. However the assessor said to me that mothers intuition is rarely wrong if we suspect our children have a learning difference so at some point in the future it is probably worth seeking assessment. Even if it isn't dyslexia, an experienced assessor should be able to point you in the right direction of what to do next if they think there is something else going on.

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