Okay, so my DS has respite for 3 hours a week term time.
Used at the weekend. On a Saturday
The carers use to take him to a special needs club, just for disabled children. My DS could run about and do whatever there with no problems so it was ideal as it was a secure place
It's now closed for the foreseeable. And I am stuck
What can I get them to do with him? He won't spend 3 hours in a park (doesn't like it)
Very high care needs, non verbal. Flight risk constantly. Can't do usual activities
He loves to swim but the carers he has don't feel comfortable with this, understandably.
I am out of ideas 
it's really rough caring for him in general and I just don't know where they'd go for 3 hours
I do not want the respite care to be carried out at home'