Hi, I'm after some advice. My DS aged nearly 5 has complex special needs and has finally had his EHCP approved and a named SEN school offered.
The named school could meet his needs but it's the one 4th closet to our home and 40mins away. Our first choice school has better provision and is only 5 mins away. Our preferred/nearest school did say they could meet DS's needs but the LA say it has 'capacity issues' hence they named a different school on the plan. I am appealing.
DS should have started reception last year but his ECHP had not been finalised and we hoped holding him back a year would mean he'd get a place at our preferred school. Due to his conditions and Autism we chose to keep in his his nursery setting as he was a summer born child so this was legally permitted. He does not like change and struggles with transition. However, nursery could only offer him 15 hours per week as they claim not to have been able to recruit the suitable staff - so I felt let down all round.
The main issue I face now is that DS has travel sickness whenever we travel more than 20mins or so. He vomits and requires a change of clothing en route and the car often has to been cleaned. He is non verbal so there is no warning of when he will be sick, but he feels uncomfortable with longer distances. This is an on-going issue whenever he has to attend medical apts further afield. Otherwise we simply stay local as a family. I am very concerned at how an 80 min daily commute there and back will impact DS. What would the expectations be around this? Do the LA provide suitable transport or would we be expected to travel with him? It would require both me and DH as one of us would need to sit with DS due to his vomiting. We both currently work so this would be logistical hard.
I'm thinking to include the travel sickness issue it in the appeal but not sure if it carries any weight. I am willing to take DS to the GP and see if he can be given some anti-vomiting medication otherwise. In one sense I'm grateful that we do finally have a named school which is appropriate, so I'm not sure whether to get a solicitor to help with the tribunal appeal or whether to just accept what we've been given.
I feel I've lost all my fight as the whole thing has been such a battle but I know I need to step-up and be the voice DS will never have. Any thoughts would be super helpful. Thanks.