I’m hoping someone can help.
DS is 8 and has been diagnosed with ADHD and SPD and is autistic (I think with some demand avoidance stuff). He’s bright - but there’s a disparity between potential (very bright according to Ed psych report) and how he’s doing at school (pretty average). He struggles socially and has been bullied on and off. He’s disruptive in class but not majorly so - interrupting, getting out of chair, chatting.
At one point school were talking about applying for an EHCP but then things seemed to improve in terms of how disruptive he was and they didn’t think it was as necessary. They seem to feel that as he’s manageable in a classroom and mostly meeting age expectations that an EHCP would be refused. And I get where they’re coming from. But he’s struggling in ways that bother me in terms of socially and not meeting his potential and I’m left feeling a bit like we’re not doing much to help/support him. But what else realistically could an EHCP offer? He’d benefit from 1:1 as I’m fairly sure he only hears 20% of what’s taught, but so would a lot of kids. He’d benefit from more interventions around his sensory needs.
I also think he’ll be eaten up alive at secondary school and I guess would like the option to choose the school that would suit him best but again it feels as if his needs just fall short of him being entitled to this.
Apologies, that was a bit of a disorganised ramble. We’ve just attempted a nice family day out where his difficulties were really on show so it’s on my mind. Hopefully someone will relate and have some advice? Anyone have success in getting an EHCP for a child that’s meeting expectations at school?