Hi,
I suspect my Year 5 boy (almost 10) has some undiagnosed needs - maybe ADHD inattentive / processing issues / maybe dysgraphia or dsylexia. I started a thread on AIBU which talks in more detail about his issues in school that appear to be getting worse each year e.g. he is starting to misbehave in class (very unlike him) if anyone is interested in viewing.
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5024190-how-to-handle-sons-behaviour-and-learning-at-school?page=2&reply=133625636
Anyway, I have decided I need to start the process of getting an assessment done with an EP. I haven't yet raised the possibility of ND with the school although I am having regular meetings with his teacher about his lack of engagement / poor output of work. It was only last night that he opened up about how much he is struggling in class - what the teacher says doesn't make sense to him or he gets distracted so misses what she'd saying etc. I am seeing his teacher Monday so will discuss my suspicions then. I don't think they will refer him as he isn't on the SENDCo's radar at all and is seen as quite able. I will go privately if it means we can move things along although I am aware finding a private EP at the moment is really difficult due to shortages.
My question though is how do I find one / get recommendations? What groups should I join to try and find one? A friend has sent me some links that she has investigated for her child but I want to be as thorough as possible in my search. I'm totally new to this so any advice much appreciated. TIA