I’d love to hear from anyone who has got an LA to fund a MS private school place for their child, which they were already paying for?
My DD is in y7. She has missed most of this year so far in her MS state secondary school with EBSA. School tell me she will struggle in any mainstream. They are suggesting a very unsuitable alternative provision or doing nothing and just waiting for her to come back to the class.
DD has ASD, ADHD, SPD. Cant be in busy, loud spaces. It’s not going to change. She struggles to keep up in class because of processing needs, scores in low average range on everything though she’s bright. Demand avoidant on homework. Masks and fawns with teachers when in school. No disruptive dysregulation in school apart from tears but she gets very dysregulated before and after school and hits me.
I’ve found a private MS school which has offered to take her. The class sizes are half what she has been in. I feel with closer adult contact she could access MS curriculum.
I can afford to pay fees for up to two years. But then savings are gone. If I start paying now, can I get LA to take over fees?
She may not be able to cope in this smaller class either. If so, I will look for a more suitable AP. But, if she thrives in the private school, I will ask the LA to take over the fees in an EHCP. But can they refuse and assume I can carry on paying for the full 5 years because I have started to pay? How soon can I ask them to pay, even in a setting it’s uncertain if she can stay?
Or will they refuse to pay and want me to send her to a MS secondary school with a higher class size because she will have shown she can cope in MS- if she manages to stay in the smaller class size school..? I’m desperate and don’t want to wait for EHCP to get her in to a school. I can’t work while she’s out of school, but I need to do that.
We don’t have an EHCP yet though starting process via current school. Primary said she was anxious but fine in school apart from her poor attendance and lateness, so EHCP was never mentioned before. The diagnoses are all private and recent.