I can't see the wood for the trees and hoping someone can help please. Just completely overwhelmed with information and struggling to find the answers I need.
DD is 2 and almost certainly autistic. Global development delay and non-verbal. She has very clear support needs and so I've been researching the process of applying for an EHC assessment. However I've just seen that if an EHCP is issued, it will name her school, when she is approaching school age. Older siblings attend a school in the neighbouring county (we live near the border) and therefore under a different LA to our home address and to DD's current nursery. I would ideally like DD to attend the same school as her siblings. Is this going to throw a massive spanner in the works? Is it going to be an issue to have a school in a different LA named on the ECHP? To be honest, I'm very doubtful that we'll receive any meaningful or timely help via the nursery or LA (she is currently on waiting lists to be seen by the paediatrician and SALT but these are long), so have committed ourselves to training in ABA and plan to deliver tutoring ourselves with the support of a case manager. From this perspective, I'm wondering if we should just forget about the EHCP, continue with our current plan RE the ABA, get DD into our chosen primary school and then worry about an EHCP when she's there.
Can anyone offer any insight into our best course of action here please? I just don't know what to do for the best.