Hi,
I wondered if I could ask for advice about dealing with alternative provision? I have a really complicated problem.
My son is out of school because he is having terrible panic attacks due to being exposed to inappropriate material at school. (horror and post-watershed stuff - the school say it's fine, but it's definitely not fine for my DS and has really messed him up).
He's been out of school for 2.5 months and there is still no alternative provision. The school say he must accept tutors and video calls. DS is petrified of having tutors or videos calls because he knows they will expose him to stuff he can't cope with. (He is absolutely right about this, because I am teaching him at home and he is incredibly sensitive at the moment. I even have to cover all the pictures in books.)
I would like them to send tests and powerpoint files from school so I could read them and teach the material to DS in a gentle way that he can cope with. That's what I'm already doing in several subjects and it works well. He does the tests and sends them in and it is good.
The school say they can't do that because it is against regulations. They says that if I want to teach him then we have to deregister and electively home educate.
It can't be a safeguarding thing, because they are perfectly happy for me to EHE.
I am refusing to deregister because we want the support of a school. For a lot of different reason, that I won't go into, I really don't think EHE would work for us.
I wondered if anybody might know how we deal with this situation so the school are working within their guidelines and my son can receive an education, without having to engage with adults outside the family just now?
I called child protection at the council and they told me to write to the newspapers, but that seems a bit of a nuclear option. I would rather work it out amicably with the school.
Thanks!