I dont know if I'm overthinking the situation? My child is in a specialist SEN unit. My child is in a friendship group with two others. All is fine in the group and all parents have taken turns in taking the children on playdates. However my child and one of the other children have a lot more in common and enjoy the same hobby whereas the other child has zero interest, this absolutely doesn't affect the friendship group and they all get on well, on the odd occasion (it's happened three times at the moment) mine and the other child have had a playdate just the two of them so they can enjoy their hobby together. I think however, the child's parent who doesn't have the same hobby is feeling upset/aggrieved that their child hasn't been included and has cooled off considerably towards us as parents. This hasn't affected the friendship of the children. On previous playdates we have tried to include this child in the hobby and there has been zero interest so we just do alternative activities for all of them. WWYD? I didn't think approaching the parent and asking if everything was ok was the right thing to do? I swing between thinking that my child is allowed to have a hobby and enjoy it with whoever has the same hobby but then think how I would feel if my child was the one who wasn't 'included' but then know that we do other things for them as a group so all are included. Argh. Am I overthinking this?