Dd is 11 has asd. In a Sen school for asd children.
She started in September, she has been excluded 3 times for aggressive behaviour. On one occasion another child was poking her and she retaliated. (She doesn't like people on her space) on another she hit a teacher and on the last one she over turned a table over in temper. (No one injured) She is massively anxious, self harms and is on high alert at all times.
There is nothing in place to support her , I've requested Ed psych which school haven't done. I put a referral in to camhs but was told she doesn't meet the threshold. I've requested support from social services and been denied it.
They have refused to take her back until a risk assessment is in place and have called an emergency meeting for Monday to review her ehcp.
I am concerned they are going to say they can't meet need, she wouldn't cope in mainstream and can't attend any other Sen school in our area as they all require a learning or physical disability . (She is not behind academically) I don't want her in a behavioural unit.
Any advice for the meeting,? Should I challenge the exclusions ? Can I state I want her to stay in this school? I'm worried I will be ambushed once I'm there. Thanks