Hello everyone,
Hoping someone can give me the best advice on what to do next as I've now reached breaking point 🤦🏻♀️
So my DS is 14 years old year 10 he has undiagnosed Sen previous school A attempted to permanently exlude DS, but I appealed and the irp decision was to quash the exclusion and reinstate. This was due to multiple reasons one being them not considering his Sen.
DS was off school for 6 months.
Once decision was quashed school A agreed to manage move DS to another school.
DS attended school B for 13 weeks both 6 week reviews went really well, DS was doing really well and even better with the support of senco. there was a incident where he got repeatedly punched by an ex student this was recorded and sent across school. DS went back to school feeling humiliated but was keen to still go in and pass his manage move. However they still decided to add another 6 weeks.... in this time my son got off a bus near my home on way from school where a fight escalated with 2 other children. my son was caught on video watching with another 10-15 kids. As disappointed I may be with him for standing and watching he did not do anything. But as he was seen watching his manage move failed.
I have spoken to school and explained that as DS is very easily led and vulnerable they should of atleast have taken this into consideration as he's done so well and another manage move will now make him feel super anxious and is simply not fair.
School is firm on decision and says they have a zero tolerance policy to being present at fights. However some students are still in school that was actually involved in this fight and received a 2 day internal exclusion. So still in school,
Question is do i go for another manage move, or do I try and take this further with council ?
Ds has been through too much im worried another manage move will be too much for him as he already struggles to keep friends.
Sorry for long post just struggling to know what to do.